I was driving back from my office this
afternoon when the idea for this article
hit me. For a moment i thought about
parking my car by the side of the road
to pull out my laptop and write this but
thought against it; stopping to type by
the r
oad seemed too "crase-manish" for
my liking...
But still;
THE EXCITEMENT TO WRITE THIS WAS
THAT STRONG...
Now, stay with me - this is very
important. The thing about these
reasons i will list out in a moment is
that they are not really a secret, i
tagged it "secret" because guys hide
these problems of theirs and keep it to themselves I spent the whole of last night replying
tons of email from guys who are going Through hell in the hands of Girls they like; reading those emails was really a painful experience - nothing pains me like seeing a guy been treated like he is nothing by a girl he is crazy about.
This is why i do this; to make sure that as many guys as i can reach with my articles would never make the same mistakes that get girls to take them less seriously.
*smiles*
Of course, not everyone will like these articles - infact, most people won't agree with them. But it's fine - na so life be - everybody must not agree with you and you mustn't say things just to impress people.
Now; lets get to business.
#1: THE "MONEY WILL GET GIRLS
FLOCKING TO ME" MENTALITY:
Trust me, i have come to find out that when a guy says: "get money first and girls will come flocking around you", such guys usually say this because they have been frustrated by girls in the past. such guys get so frustrated that, to console themselves, they "wish" for a time when they will have a fat bank account and girls will come rushing into their arms.
THIS IS PURE FANTASY - Wake up, bro.
Also, most of these guys freak out when they see a girl they like, some of them cannot even hold a conversation with a female for 5 minutes.
See, don't get me wrong - having
money is cool, pull up with a Bugatti to a party and girls will look at you like "who is that boy". Some would even want you to get them pregnant.
But here is the hard plain truth...
At a point in time you start wondering if these girls really like you or if they like your money. Money brings you lazy, materialistic, cheating, "no dream" kind of girls who just want to stay at home and make babies and eat. If that is the kind of girl you want, then i agree with you - money will get them flocking to you (For sure) But when it gets to getting a girl who has real value, who has a job, rides her own car (My type of girl) - you have to show her something else; money alone can't get her interested in you - you have to dazzle her with your personality and when your personality is wack - guy, nothing for you.
I have very rich friends, when i mean rich, i mean - RICH. I have worked with over a dozen extremely wealthy guys and they all have the same problem, which is: "How Do I find a girl who is
not just interested in my money", "how do i find a girl who will love me for who i am"
*Go and listen to chorus of Iyanya's
Orei - he is presently having that same problem too*
I hear alot of guy say things like: "be
ugly, have a bad personality, have pot belly, have mouth odor - but once you have money girls will throw themselves at you".
This maybe true, gold digging girls will scramble over such a guy (I no go drag am with una).
but the question is this...
- Do they really like him??
- Will they be faithful to him if a better
guy shows up?
- Will they stay on if the money dries
up? Think about that.
If you are the type that tremble when you talk to a girl, getting rich won't solve that fear - you are still the same guy, bro. If you are a boring guy when you are broke, get rich - you are still boring,
bro.
Moreover, the richer you get the more quality women you will meet. This women will have their own money and won't give a damn about yours. This women meet guys who are way richer than you everyday; the competition go still dey bro. You need something more than money -
You need a charming personality.
Simple and short. If you Like console
yourself from today reach tomorrow,
money won't erase your lack of a
charming personality (for those who
don't have one).
Funny thing is that most broke guys go after girls with this mentality - they buy her gifts, pay her school fees, send her recharge card upon recharge card - and still get dumped.
Haba na
afternoon when the idea for this article
hit me. For a moment i thought about
parking my car by the side of the road
to pull out my laptop and write this but
thought against it; stopping to type by
the r
oad seemed too "crase-manish" for
my liking...
But still;
THE EXCITEMENT TO WRITE THIS WAS
THAT STRONG...
Now, stay with me - this is very
important. The thing about these
reasons i will list out in a moment is
that they are not really a secret, i
tagged it "secret" because guys hide
these problems of theirs and keep it to themselves I spent the whole of last night replying
tons of email from guys who are going Through hell in the hands of Girls they like; reading those emails was really a painful experience - nothing pains me like seeing a guy been treated like he is nothing by a girl he is crazy about.
This is why i do this; to make sure that as many guys as i can reach with my articles would never make the same mistakes that get girls to take them less seriously.
*smiles*
Of course, not everyone will like these articles - infact, most people won't agree with them. But it's fine - na so life be - everybody must not agree with you and you mustn't say things just to impress people.
Now; lets get to business.
#1: THE "MONEY WILL GET GIRLS
FLOCKING TO ME" MENTALITY:
Trust me, i have come to find out that when a guy says: "get money first and girls will come flocking around you", such guys usually say this because they have been frustrated by girls in the past. such guys get so frustrated that, to console themselves, they "wish" for a time when they will have a fat bank account and girls will come rushing into their arms.
THIS IS PURE FANTASY - Wake up, bro.
Also, most of these guys freak out when they see a girl they like, some of them cannot even hold a conversation with a female for 5 minutes.
See, don't get me wrong - having
money is cool, pull up with a Bugatti to a party and girls will look at you like "who is that boy". Some would even want you to get them pregnant.
But here is the hard plain truth...
At a point in time you start wondering if these girls really like you or if they like your money. Money brings you lazy, materialistic, cheating, "no dream" kind of girls who just want to stay at home and make babies and eat. If that is the kind of girl you want, then i agree with you - money will get them flocking to you (For sure) But when it gets to getting a girl who has real value, who has a job, rides her own car (My type of girl) - you have to show her something else; money alone can't get her interested in you - you have to dazzle her with your personality and when your personality is wack - guy, nothing for you.
I have very rich friends, when i mean rich, i mean - RICH. I have worked with over a dozen extremely wealthy guys and they all have the same problem, which is: "How Do I find a girl who is
not just interested in my money", "how do i find a girl who will love me for who i am"
*Go and listen to chorus of Iyanya's
Orei - he is presently having that same problem too*
I hear alot of guy say things like: "be
ugly, have a bad personality, have pot belly, have mouth odor - but once you have money girls will throw themselves at you".
This maybe true, gold digging girls will scramble over such a guy (I no go drag am with una).
but the question is this...
- Do they really like him??
- Will they be faithful to him if a better
guy shows up?
- Will they stay on if the money dries
up? Think about that.
If you are the type that tremble when you talk to a girl, getting rich won't solve that fear - you are still the same guy, bro. If you are a boring guy when you are broke, get rich - you are still boring,
bro.
Moreover, the richer you get the more quality women you will meet. This women will have their own money and won't give a damn about yours. This women meet guys who are way richer than you everyday; the competition go still dey bro. You need something more than money -
You need a charming personality.
Simple and short. If you Like console
yourself from today reach tomorrow,
money won't erase your lack of a
charming personality (for those who
don't have one).
Funny thing is that most broke guys go after girls with this mentality - they buy her gifts, pay her school fees, send her recharge card upon recharge card - and still get dumped.
Haba na
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